So today is a bit of an advice post, yes, I have posted this on my Instagram before, but I feel like the people who don't follow my Instagram should hear it too, plus it has a little extra added into it.
Before I post this, a lot of you will think I am posting this for attention, but I am not. Honestly I want to get a message out to all girls that it doesn't matter what you look like.
I struggle with my looks and my body. But not in the way most people do. I physically mentally struggle and a lot of people, when I say I'm fat or whatever, are very quick to jump to conclusion and judge me. They will think that I am saying it for attention, or if I think that I am fat that I should do something about it. Whereas what they don't know is that I do sport almost everyday of the week, sometimes more than once a day! Along side this, I don't eat, or I have times where I don't eat because I feel sick if I eat, or that I feel if I don't eat I will become skinnier. But this is all because I get called fat and have been since my first primary school!
I am older, than people my age, not only am I almost in year nine with a 24 hour, 47 minute difference, but I also act older because of everything I have been through (at some stage I will come out to you all), but also because I look older, my whole body has always grown up quicker than everybody else my age! I had a full set of baby teeth at 1 and adult teeth at 9. I don't look 13, nor my face, body or personality. But nobody understands this and they don't know what's going through my head, and trust me, what goes through my head isn't good, so when people say crap about me behind my back it brings me even further down into a shit hole.
Anyway,
All I want to say, besides my personal issues with myself, you don't need makeup to look pretty, you don't need to go on diets, you don't need to stuff your bra or do any of the stupid, little things girls do to try and look perfect. Whereas, the truth is, nobody is 100% perfect. Whether you think someone is prettier or thinner than you, you shouldn't care. You are you and you should never change that. Believe in yourself and ignore the horrible people out there who find it hilarious to judge, or to make fun of you or call you names. Because those people are not worth it. And probably just jealous of how beautiful you are.
And I know it's easier said than done, trust me, but eventually you and even myself will get there.
If you want, post a photo of yourself with absolutely no makeup or no edits or silly poses or whatever.
Many people post photos saying "no makeup selfie" but in fact they are wearing concealer and mascara or more.
No
I mean post a photo of your completely free looking face. Because I guarantee you will look perfect. If anybody wants to do this then just #maddymaysmakeup (Instagram) and tell me or tag me on your photo.
But if you don't want don't do it then it's fine, but I think you should prove to people that your beautiful. Because you are 😊.
I very much hope that I have helped you, if not all then some, and I would love to hear back from you guys. Just comment or anything if anyone needs a chat. Because I am here for anyone, whether I know you or not.
Keep Smiling,
Lots of Love,
Maddy May Xo
